{"id":1309,"date":"2015-03-23T10:46:36","date_gmt":"2015-03-23T10:46:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dev.sosgarde.ca\/blog\/?p=1309"},"modified":"2023-04-15T19:26:33","modified_gmt":"2023-04-15T19:26:33","slug":"help-your-aging-parents-come-to-terms-with-needing-support","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sosgarde.ca\/blog\/elderly_home_care\/help-your-aging-parents-come-to-terms-with-needing-support\/","title":{"rendered":"Help your Aging Parents Come to Terms with Needing Support"},"content":{"rendered":"Reading Time: <\/span> 2<\/span> minutes<\/span><\/span>

Do you remember Henry Fonda and Katherine Hepburn\u2019s movin<\/span>g portrayal of Norman and Ethel,<\/span> an elderly couple \"On-Golden-Pond-DVD-Inlay1\"<\/a>trying to deal <\/span>with<\/span> the realities of getting old,<\/span> in the wonderful movie On Golden Pond?<\/span><\/p>\n

Norman: <\/span> \u201c<\/span>You want to know why I came back so <\/span>fast?<\/span> I got to the end of our lane. I couldn’t remember<\/span> where the old town road was. <\/span>There was nothing <\/span>familiar<\/span>. Not one damn tree. Scared me half to death. That’s why I came running back here to you. So I could see your pretty face and I could feel safe and that I was still me.<\/span>\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Ethel: <\/span>\u201cYou’re safe, you old poop and you’re definitely still you. After lunch, we’ll take ourselves to the old town road. We’ve been there a thousand times. A thousand. And you’ll remember it all. Listen to me, mister. You’re my knight in shining armour. Don’t you forget <\/span>it.<\/span>\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

If you ha<\/span>ve loved ones who are in need of<\/span> help in their daily living, the first t<\/span>hing you need to understand is that it is <\/span>frightening<\/span> for them as they feel they are starting to <\/span>lose their very essence of themselves<\/span>. <\/span>It is important to <\/span>listen and acknowledge<\/span> their concerns.<\/span><\/p>\n

It is best to <\/span>start discussions early<\/span> rather than waiting for a crisis. <\/span>Consider who the loved one has traditionally listened to the most<\/span>. <\/span>Alternatively<\/span>, consider <\/span>engaging an objective professional<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Starting early allows you to <\/span>start slow<\/span> and be patient<\/span>. It provides the opportunity to really dive into what your elderly loved ones are feeling so you can understand how best to help them. <\/span><\/p>\n

The most <\/span>common concerns<\/span> are often about <\/span>giving up driving<\/span> and getting <\/span>help around the house with shopping, cooking and cleaning<\/span> \u2013 things they could always do for themselves. Reassure them that they can <\/span>get help \u201con a <\/span>trial<\/span> basis\u201d<\/span>. Be sure to make it clear that basic support can help ensure they <\/span>maintain their independence for as long as possible<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you are looking for support<\/span> caring for your elderly loved ones, www.SOSsitter.ca<\/a><\/span>, can help you find qualified and caring senior caregivers in your local area. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Do you remember Henry Fonda and Katherine Hepburn\u2019s moving portrayal of Norman and Ethel, an elderly couple trying to deal with the realities of getting old, in the wonderful movie On Golden Pond? Norman: \u201cYou want to know why I came back so fast? I got to the end of our lane. I couldn’t remember […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[669],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1309","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-elderly_home_care"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sosgarde.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1309","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sosgarde.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sosgarde.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sosgarde.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sosgarde.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1309"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/sosgarde.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1309\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2078,"href":"https:\/\/sosgarde.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1309\/revisions\/2078"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sosgarde.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1309"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sosgarde.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1309"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sosgarde.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1309"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}