{"id":1621,"date":"2016-12-05T10:25:48","date_gmt":"2016-12-05T10:25:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dev.sosgarde.ca\/blog\/?p=1621"},"modified":"2023-07-12T23:27:42","modified_gmt":"2023-07-12T23:27:42","slug":"generosity-and-the-holidays","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sosgarde.ca\/blog\/nanny\/generosity-and-the-holidays\/","title":{"rendered":"Generosity and the Holidays"},"content":{"rendered":"<span class=\"rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Reading Time: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\">3<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tinkle. Tinkle. Tinkle. Did you hear that? That is the sound of an angel getting his wings. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you do not know that reference, you need to watch \u201cIt\u2019s a Wonderful Life\u201d this holiday season! It is a classic <a href=\"https:\/\/dev.sosgarde.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/kid-valentine.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-1063 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/dev.sosgarde.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/kid-valentine-300x199.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"199\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sosgarde.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/kid-valentine-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/sosgarde.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/kid-valentine.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>Christmas movie and sure to be on the television line-up once or twice in the coming weeks. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In fact, have you noticed that the number of \u201cfeel good\u201d movies have already started to increase? We are officially in the ramp-up to the <a href=\"https:\/\/sosgarde.ca\/blog\/babysitter\/let-perfection-go-for-a-perfect-holiday\">holiday<\/a> season and the corny but lovely movies will be rolling and everyone will be putting in that extra effort to be a little bit kinder and gentler. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">All the love and kindness makes the holidays the perfect time to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/worry-wise\/201412\/how-teach-your-children-generosity-during-the-holidays\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">remind your little angels about the importance of generosity<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What is generosity, you ask? I mean, you know what it means\u2026 being generous\u2026 but you have never really thought about it before, right? Whilst Google tells us that \u201cGenerosity is the quality of being kind and generous\u201d, <\/span><a href=\"about:blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Wikipedia<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> helpfully clarifies that it \u201cOften means to provide help to others by giving them an (unusually precious) item without thinking twice.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You may wonder how to help your children be generous towards others, when they are mostly being generous in texting you links to the exact gifts they will be expecting this holiday season. But it can be done!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The basics of teaching your kids are like most things you teach them\u2014lead by example; start small and build; give them choices; and be patient!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And the good news about the holidays is that there are already things happening in your community that can provide learning opportunities such as food and gift drives. I remember the Angel Tree drives when I was a kid. You choose an entire family (with their names and ages noted on an Angel decoration on the tree) and bought presents for them. My friends and I even kept it up through our teenage years. Volunteering at a soup kitchen or behind the scenes at a toy drive sorting out gifts is also a good idea.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But don\u2019t forget your older relatives, senior family friends and elderly neighbours. A friend always tells me the famous saying:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you are young you have energy and time but no money.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you are in the middle of your life, you have the energy and money but no time.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you are old, you have time and money but no energy.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The way you can be most generous this holiday season is by giving your time to an older person. Some ideas to get you going:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bake them a cake or other Christmas goodies (just be aware of any dietary restrictions they may have). <\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Go to their home and sing Christmas carols.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Take them to a concert to listen to carols.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Arrange to take them to church on Christmas.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Play cards with them or do a puzzle.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Take them shopping to help them buy gifts for their grandchildren. <\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Help them wrap their Christmas presents.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Address Christmas cards for them.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">All of that sounds wonderful right!? And given the luxury of all the time and money in the world, you would be right on it. But things are busy. You are stressed. Urghh\u2026 too much to do!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If that is how you are feeling, <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/m.huffpost.com\/us\/entry\/5448218\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">remember that studies show<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that being generous can pay dividends to your physical and mental health. Connecting with people through your generosity will make you feel connected and improve your overall happiness levels. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And if you do still feel too overwhelmed, maybe it is time to be generous to yourself and get some help in your home! If you or someone you know is looking for a Nanny, check out qualified candidates in your area at <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">www.SOSsitter.ca<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/sossitter.ca\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">SOSsitter.ca<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is a Canadian portal designed to help you find local caregivers in your area, easily and quickly. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/sossitter.ca\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The caregiver who is right for your family is only a click away. <\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tinkle. Tinkle. Tinkle. Did you hear that? That is the sound of an angel getting his wings. If you do not know that reference, you need to watch \u201cIt\u2019s a Wonderful Life\u201d this holiday season! 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