{"id":1453,"date":"2016-03-14T14:26:03","date_gmt":"2016-03-14T14:26:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sosgarde.ca\/blogue\/?p=1453"},"modified":"2023-04-12T19:57:05","modified_gmt":"2023-04-12T19:57:05","slug":"enlever-le-parent-dans-grands-parents","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sosgarde.ca\/blogue\/baby-sitter\/enlever-le-parent-dans-grands-parents","title":{"rendered":"Enlever le \u00ab parent\u00a0\u00bb dans \u00ab\u00a0grands-parents\u00a0\u00bb"},"content":{"rendered":"Reading Time: <\/span> 2<\/span> minutes<\/span><\/span>

Vous souvenez-vous <\/span>du moment o\u00f9<\/span> le premier de vos fr\u00e8res et s\u0153urs <\/span>a<\/span> eu<\/span> un b\u00e9b\u00e9? Dans ma famille, c\u2019est ma <\/span>s\u0153ur a\u00een\u00e9e <\/span>qui <\/span>a \u00e9t\u00e9 la premi\u00e8re<\/span> et sa grossesse <\/span>fut<\/span> un merveilleux moment. <\/span>Toute la famille s\u2019est mobilis\u00e9e autour d\u2019elle<\/span> alors qu’elle se pr\u00e9parait pour <\/span>cette<\/span> nouvelle arriv\u00e9e et mes parents <\/span>ont choisi <\/span>leurs nouveaux noms<\/span> <\/span>avec enthousiasme: Nana et Papa.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ce que je ne savais pas <\/span>est<\/span> que nous aurions d\u00fb nous pr\u00e9parer \u00e9motionnellement pour une toute nouvelle dynamique au sein de notre petit groupe qui avait exist\u00e9 sans \u00absang neuf\u00bb <\/span>pendant<\/span> 28 <\/span>ans<\/span>. Les choses \u00e9taient sur le point de \"pushy<\/a>changer.<\/span><\/p>\n

Commen\u00e7ons par le d\u00e9but.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Avoir la famille, <\/span>et <\/span>en particulier les grands-parents<\/a>, impliqu\u00e9<\/span>e<\/span> dans la vie de vos enfants est me<\/span>rveilleux. Pour les enfants, c\u2019<\/span>est non seulement une source suppl\u00e9mentaire d’amour et de plaisir, mais <\/span>c\u2019<\/span>est \u00e9galement une autre main directrice <\/span>et <\/span>sage <\/span>pour <\/span>l<\/span>e<\/span>s guider <\/span>au cours de leur d\u00e9veloppement. Pour les parents, les grands-parents peuvent offrir de l’aide et des conseils, un soutien financier et la possibilit\u00e9 de <\/span>prendre du repos<\/span>. Et pour les grands-parents, passer du temps avec leurs petits-enfants est une grande source de joie et <\/span>peut <\/span>donner un nouveau sens \u00e0 leur retraite<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Gagnant, gagnant, gagnant<\/span>. Et <\/span>ce n\u2019est pas quelque chose \u00e0 ne pas appr\u00e9cier car nombre de familles n\u2019ont pas de<\/span> grands-parents, soit \u00e0 proximit\u00e9 <\/span>soit<\/span> int\u00e9ress\u00e9s \u00e0 <\/span>s\u2019<\/span>impliquer.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cela dit …<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Apprendre \u00e0 devenir un parent dans l’ombre de vos propres parents peut \u00eatre diffic<\/span>ile! Surtout si vous \u00eates une famille aussi <\/span>unie et opini\u00e2tre <\/span>que la mienne<\/span> (ce qui signifie que nous avons<\/span> des <\/span>parents <\/span>envahissants).<\/span><\/p>\n

Le c\u00f4t\u00e9 amusant est <\/span>Papa \u00e9tait trop <\/span>c\u00e2lin et<\/span> <\/span>que <\/span>Nana <\/span>complotait<\/span> pour <\/span>emmener <\/span>les enfants de ma s\u0153ur<\/span>, qui mangent \u00ab 100% bio\u00bb, \u00e0 ce qu’elle appelait<\/span> <\/span>\u00ab Fred Bio <\/span>\u00bb, mais <\/span>qui <\/span>\u00e9tait vraiment un magasin de beignets. <\/span>Du<\/span> c\u00f4t\u00e9 plus s\u00e9rieux, il y avait (et <\/span>il y a toujours!) d<\/span>es <\/span>perspectives<\/span> tr\u00e8s diff\u00e9rentes sur des sujets tels que la puissance de l’amour par rapport \u00e0 l’importance de la discipline. Et je me suis souvent retrouv\u00e9<\/span>e<\/span> au milieu.<\/span><\/p>\n

La chose la plus importante que j’ai appris<\/span>e<\/span> \u00e0 travers ces exp\u00e9riences <\/span>est<\/span> que tout le monde <\/span>devrait prendre les choses moins \u00e0 c\u0153ur<\/span>! <\/span>D\u00e9tendez-vous<\/span>. <\/span>Ce faisant<\/span>, vous pouvez r\u00e9ellement commencer \u00e0 comprendre le point de vue de l’autre, r\u00e9aliser que vous voulez tous <\/span>le bien des<\/span> enfants et <\/span>arriver<\/span> <\/span>\u00e0<\/span> des compromis. <\/span>La<\/span> deuxi\u00e8me chose la plus importante que j’ai appris<\/span>e<\/span> est qu’il est important de fixer des limites. Les grands-parents ne sont pas les parents, <\/span>et<\/span> les lignes <\/span>\u00e0 ne pas<\/span> franchir<\/span> devraient \u00eatre fix\u00e9es clairement<\/span>.<\/span> <\/span><\/p>\n

Avez-vous besoin d’une gardienne d\u2019enfant afin que vous et vos parents puissiez aller souper pour discuter des limites? Si oui, vous \u00eates au bon endroit!<\/span> <\/span>SOSgarde.ca est un portail canadien con\u00e7u pour vous aider \u00e0 trouver des aides \u00e0 domicile pr\u00e8s de chez vous, facilement et rapidement. L\u2019aide dont votre famille a besoin est \u00e0 un clic de souris.<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Reading Time: <\/span> 2<\/span> minutes<\/span><\/span> Vous souvenez-vous du moment o\u00f9 le premier de vos fr\u00e8res et s\u0153urs a eu un b\u00e9b\u00e9? Dans ma famille, c\u2019est ma s\u0153ur a\u00een\u00e9e qui a \u00e9t\u00e9 la premi\u00e8re et sa grossesse fut un merveilleux moment. Toute la famille s\u2019est mobilis\u00e9e autour d\u2019elle alors qu’elle se pr\u00e9parait pour cette nouvelle arriv\u00e9e et mes parents ont choisi […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false,"jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false}}},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1453","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-baby-sitter"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"yoast_head":"\nEnlever le \u00ab parent\u00a0\u00bb dans \u00ab\u00a0grands-parents\u00a0\u00bb - SOSgarde<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/sosgarde.ca\/blogue\/baby-sitter\/enlever-le-parent-dans-grands-parents\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"fr_CA\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Enlever le \u00ab parent\u00a0\u00bb dans \u00ab\u00a0grands-parents\u00a0\u00bb - SOSgarde\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Reading Time: 2 minutes Vous souvenez-vous du moment o\u00f9 le premier de vos fr\u00e8res et s\u0153urs a eu un b\u00e9b\u00e9? 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