{"id":366,"date":"2012-01-23T20:41:44","date_gmt":"2012-01-23T20:41:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sosgarde.ca\/blogue\/?p=366"},"modified":"2023-04-13T21:11:43","modified_gmt":"2023-04-13T21:11:43","slug":"discipliner-lenfant-de-facon-positive-lattitude","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sosgarde.ca\/blogue\/baby-sitter\/discipliner-lenfant-de-facon-positive-lattitude","title":{"rendered":"Discipliner l’enfant de fa\u00e7on positive – l’attitude"},"content":{"rendered":"Reading Time: <\/span> 2<\/span> minutes<\/span><\/span>

\"\"<\/a>Elever un enfant c’est lui donner les cl\u00e9s de la vie en soci\u00e9t\u00e9 pour lui permettre de devenir un adulte responsable qui sait raisonner et s\u2019adapter. La base de cette \u00e9ducation est de lui faire int\u00e9grer ce qui est un comportement acceptable et de lui fixer des limites.\u00a0\u00a0 La discipline est donc un sujet capital dont il faut parler en famille avec toutes les personnes impliqu\u00e9es dans l\u2019\u00e9ducation de l\u2019enfant, incluant sa nounou<\/a>, \u00a0pour vous assurer que l\u2019approche choisie est coh\u00e9rente et que l\u2019enfant obtiendra toujours les m\u00eames r\u00e9ponses pour le m\u00eame\u00a0comportment.<\/p>\n

Plusieurs \u00e9tudes d\u00e9montrent que r\u00e9agir avec \u00e9motivit\u00e9, crier et donner des punitions corporelles ne sont pas les meilleures approches et que les enfants qui ont \u00e9t\u00e9 \u00e9lev\u00e9 de cette fa\u00e7on ont davantage de chance d\u2019\u00eatre agressif et d\u2019avoir des comportements n\u00e9gatifs en tant qu\u2019adultes.\u00a0 Il est donc important de planifier les choses et d’utiliser une discipline positive plut\u00f4t que de r\u00e9agir dans l’\u00e9motion.<\/ins> <\/ins>Les secrets d\u2019une discipline positive r\u00e9ussie sont l\u2019attitude et la communication.<\/ins> Pas seulement transmit par les parents, la gardienne<\/a> aussi devra l’utliser. Le sujet est vaste et donc on couvrira l’attitude positive dans ce billet, et la communication dans le prochain.<\/p>\n

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L’attitude c\u2019est faire preuve de coh\u00e9rence: toujours choisir une approche positive et ne jamais tomber dans l’\u00e9motivit\u00e9 et la r\u00e9activit\u00e9. Il faut donc \u00eatre constamment \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9coute, faire preuve de beaucoup de patience, d\u2019adaptation,<\/ins> de flexibilit\u00e9. <\/ins>L’id\u00e9e de base \u00e9tant de donner des rep\u00e8res et d’apprendre \u00e0 l’enfant \u00e0 faire les bons choix, il faut donc y l’encourager et le f\u00e9liciter quand il le fait.<\/p>\n

Bien souvent, il suffit de pr\u00e9voir les potentiels probl\u00e8mes et de leur donner un bon choix avant qu\u2019ils n’aient l\u2019occasion de prendre une mauvaise d\u00e9cision: par exemple, si ils s’appr\u00eatent \u00e0 jouer avec des crayons de couleur, demandez leur si ils veulent dessiner sur la table de la cuisine ou \u00e9taler des journaux par terre dans leur chambre. Deux choix tout \u00e0 fait acceptables ont donn\u00e9s, au lieu de rien dire et r\u00e9agir seulement quand le choix que l’enfant a fait est mauvais.<\/p>\n

Une attitude positive c\u2019est aussi cr\u00e9er un cadre respectueux et aimant o\u00f9 l’enfant peut s’\u00e9panouir sans peur ni frustrations.\u00a0 Il est donc tr\u00e8s important que votre gardienne, comme vous, prenne soin de toujours parler \u00e0 l’enfant avec respect et calmement, ce qui n’enl\u00e8ve rien \u00e0 la fermet\u00e9 mais permet de cr\u00e9er un dialogue au lieu de donner des ordres. Ainsi, n’h\u00e9sitez pas \u00e0 vous \u00e9loigner quelques minutes avant de parler avec votre enfant si vous sentez que vous \u00eates \u00e9nerv\u00e9e.<\/p>\n

Si votre nounou et vous-m\u00eame adoptez cette approche positive de la discipline<\/a>, vous verrez qu’avec un peu de patience votre enfant apprendra de lui-m\u00eame ses limites.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Reading Time: <\/span> 2<\/span> minutes<\/span><\/span> Avec les enfants, il est important d’utiliser une discipline positive plut\u00f4t que de r\u00e9agir dans l’\u00e9motion. Les secrets d\u2019une discipline positive r\u00e9ussie sont l\u2019attitude et la communication. Pas seulement transmit par les parents, la gardienne aussi devra l’utliser. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false,"jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false}}},"categories":[4],"tags":[39,88,5,401,19],"class_list":["post-366","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-baby-sitter","tag-conseils","tag-discipline","tag-famille","tag-gardiennage-denfant","tag-gardienne"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"yoast_head":"\nDiscipliner l'enfant de fa\u00e7on positive - l'attitude - SOSgarde<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/sosgarde.ca\/blogue\/baby-sitter\/discipliner-lenfant-de-facon-positive-lattitude\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"fr_CA\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Discipliner l'enfant de fa\u00e7on positive - l'attitude - SOSgarde\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Reading Time: 2 minutes Avec les enfants, il est important d'utiliser une discipline positive plut\u00f4t que de r\u00e9agir dans l'\u00e9motion. 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